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Valen-lies 

Dating outside of Gods will , will have you bound in relationships or situation-ships! 
I remember being involved with my former ex-boyfriend and going through challenges with him and trying to break his walls that I actually found myself trying to force him to love me! Isn’t that crazy? 

Sometimes we find ourselves forcing ourselves to have someone love us! 


I wanted him to marry me I even formed a whole life with him in my head but he didn’t want it! 

Here I am today 27, and writing this blog inside of Olive Garden waiting on my sweet mother for dinner!
You may be asking yourself ( aren’t you sitting Around other couples?) I am but as I got older I have realized that the concept or (idea) of love doesn’t even come against the love the father has for us! We have immortalized the day of the Worlds way of LOVE when we should be loving each other everyday after all that is a commandment! 

I would like to talk share about the emptiness I felt for the first time I shared my Valentine’s Day with my ex boyfriend ! I was so excited and I remembering getting all dressed up ! I thought maybe we were going to dinner but things took a shift and we just ordered take out! ( which didn’t bother me) if I remember I believe we also got into an argument that night. But we still continued to hang! Unfortunately this was before I met Christ so me and my ex did spend the night together but the whole night I was looking for the excitement but I never received it! I do want to to tell you that although we spent time that night the emptiness was still there we were still two broken people trying to find happiness through each other and our time together we never found it! And that is what God wants you to know you will always find emptiness and false love outside the will of God! 
God doesn’t want us to use this day to gratify our selfish desires but instead continue to serve him! 
Although you can still serve your husband or wife too! 
Do It in righteousness ! 

I love you Guys !!! Grow in love 


Happy Valentine’s Day!! 

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  1. UnknownMay 6, 2018 at 11:26 PM

    How long have you been saved? How did you change the font like this on your blog? Valentines Day is a money making made up Holiday but I understand why women love it. I'm a romantic guy so I love it as well and make a big deal out of it. Any excuse to express my romantic creativity. Yeah he should of took you out. But a man will only do what a women allows. When he tried to give you take out you should of made him go home or go to the room alone. lol. Guarantee he would of got the point. I totally understand we cannot look for fulfillment in another person. Two people must be complete and fulfilled in life with a strong relationship with God before marrying or getting together.

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