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Do you force yourself?





Do You Force Yourself?


I know your probably staring at your screen wondering what I am getting ready to make your minds ponder on tonight! Haha, Yes Don't you love my enthusiam? My topic for tonight has alot to do with much experiences I have been through in the past Few weeks. Tonight, I will be speaking about Relationships specifically. 


Have you ever put yourself in a situation where you were the one doing all the calling, texting, making plans and just pretty much putting all the effort? You pretty much are now "The leader," If you are a female then you are the guy in this instance. Sucks, right?  (QUIT FORCING YOURSELF!) Yep I've been there but this is okay. It's simple you like someone, at first everything is great conversation is wonderful, a few weeks past by and now you don't hear from them. Your pretty much wondering, "God!" What have I done? Everything was so perfect! You pick up the phone and call and text and the person you like is playing games with you now. It's quite simple to handle this just ignore the person but you dont. The Person has played with your heart emotionally and now you want answers. Trust me its okay to want answers but do you rightfully feel like you need them? The only answer's you need is from God. The Guy/Girl you were interested in talking to wasn't really interested in you, they were just playing games. If you feel like you are beginning to force yourself on anyone let it go its not worth it, never give anyone your all who isn't JESUS.  

I have put myself in many situations where I was the FORCER. I chased after people, I chased after my freinds and even an ex-boyfreind. I have met a guy I like and when I felt like he wasn't interested in me. I made him become interested. It was like I wanted him to want me. I wanted people to like me, I was looking for love and freindships within people who cared nothing about me. Of course when I was doing this I really had no realization that I was doing this until God told me. Sometimes that is how it works, God will only give you so much than you can handle. God doesn't want us to FORCE ourselves on ANYONE. You are going to meet people who are going to walk in and out of your life. It's up to you if you allow them to stay. That choice is all up to you. 

My question for you tonight is,..... Do you force yourself? 
To force is to make one's way by force. Are you forcing yourself on anyone, any freinds or family. If you are pray over yourself and that situation Give it to God. Don't allow the enemy to drive a wedge in your happiness. If people want to be in your life they will stay you shouldn't have to force yourself on anyone. God will remind you who you are in Him. With Jesus we dont have to force ourselves on him because he is already there. Isn't that awesome. Even when we forget about how great of a God/brother/sister/freind he is...he is always there! He will never leave us. Turn to a freind like Jesus our Lord and Savior and experience his peace. Its so overwhelming, it is something that words can't explain as often at times. I pray for you. May God keep you and may he cover you in love. 

Lets pray-


Heavenly Father Yahweh, we come to you tonight Lord asking for your presence. Your guidance and your strong touch LORD. Cover us your children who are often at times lost and confused. Lord God Forgive us when we doubt you and your commands for we know that your will is stronger than ours. Bless our home and give us financial freedom. Father I pray for anyone right now who is hurting and who is lost. Lord...I pray for anyone who is in doubt. Father they are confused they want to know your plan please show them. Lord bless all who are forcing themselves on anyone who they shouldn't be. Please remove anyone from our lives who is not of You God. Love us lord beyond our minds. Keep us at peace tonight God. Pray over the sick and shut in..everyone who is in bondage in America and overseas Lord. Let us not be afraid to do your will. God let us not be afraid to love you openly. Lord we thank you..
In JESUS NAME WE PRAY, AMEN. 










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